Life Lessons A Letter From My Future Self 8:00 AM A Letter From My Future Self A Letter from My Future Self Hey Gorgeous, Guess who's writing to you? Yep, it's your future self – way stronger, way happier, and bursting with pride at the amazing woman you've become.Seriously, you're crushing it! Remember all those doubts, all those times you felt lost? Look how far you've come.Listen, there were some rough patches. That toxic relationship? Yeah, girl, good riddance! Walking away was the bravest thing you ever did, even if it felt like your heart was shattering. But trust me, it opened the door to so much better.Remember that heartbreak quote by Eric Ludy? Still applies."Many a young woman has spent nights crying over a broken heart-not from an ended relationship, but from the FALSE HOPE of a relationship that never began." Sometimes, letting go of something that wasn't meant to be frees you up for something incredible.Wonderful things are coming your way. There will be stumbles, but there's also a whole stormcloud full of God's blessings ready to pour down on you. So keep the faith.Speaking of faith, hold onto the people who lift you up, the ones who celebrate your quirks and believe in you even when you don't believe in yourself. Life is a million times better with those cheerleaders by your side.Remember all that time you wasted chasing after things you thought you needed? We can laugh about that now, right? You've learned a powerful lesson: your worth doesn't depend on what you have. It comes from who you are.You are a good person, beautiful inside and out. Don't ever forget that. Let go of anyone who tries to dim your light, and forgive freely, even if they don't deserve it. It's about your peace, not theirs.The best part? You haven't even seen the good stuff yet! God has amazing plans for you. And trust me, the surprises He has in store are beyond anything you could dream up.So hang tight, lovely.Keep loving yourself, keep loving God, and enjoy the ride. Your future self is waiting for you with the biggest smile, ready to celebrate the incredible woman you've become.With endless love and pride,Your Future YouP.S. You're gonna have a blast!This post contains affiliate links, so we'd get a commission if you purchase through the links at no additional cost to you. Thank you!
Lux Thinking Aloud I'm Taking Charge 5:33 PM We are not creatures of circumstance; we are creators of circumstance. -Benjamin Disraeli I'm taking charge. I have allowed circumstances to take charge of my life for a long time. I have let myself get away with excuses and blaming. I have let myself suffer from other people's wrong decisions and shortcomings. Not anymore. I have decided that I have enough. No more excuses. I'm not taking any bullshit anymore. I will not let obstacles intimidate and discourage me from getting the life I have always wanted. I will use them as my stepping stones instead. I will not wallow in self-pity. It's normal to get hurt, to grieve for a while, to rest. But, quitting is not an option. Everybody gets hurt. Everyone has had their fair share of betrayal, abuse, heartaches and failures. Those are all parts of growing and living. But all those are temporary. They are not the end of my story. I refuse to accept them as the end of my story. That's why I'm taking charge. I will not let lack of knowledge or experience about certain things kill my dreams. No more blaming. Yes, some people in my life should have treated me better, should have known better than use and abuse my kindness and generosity. They should not have dragged me into their mess. But what good does it do to keep on pointing fingers? If I would really analyze it, I have contributed to the situation no matter how small. I have cooperated. If I didn't, things would have been different. I have let myself get pushed around by life. It's time to push back. I refuse to get stuck. I'm taking charge. If you like this blog post on rants about life, please share the article using the social media buttons below or on the left. Thanks!
Listicle 10 Gifts Of A Romantic Relationship 6:34 AM The greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return. -Moulin Rouge Being single is awesome. But, there are days when it really sucks too. People misunderstand you, and just like any normal human being, you fear a lot of things. I know the ups and downs of being single, and I also know what it's like to be in a relationship. There are things only single people can get to enjoy, but there are also perks of being in a romantic relationship. 10 Gifts Of A Romantic Relationship The gift of having a partner. You've got a partner in crime. In all your whimsical adventures, in all your misadventures, in every place you want to go to and things you want to try, you always have someone beside you, ready to explore the world with you. Even in simple things as having Sunday brunches or staying up late to watch reruns, there's always someone to share a moment with. The gift of having a backup. You know not all your decisions are wise, but you have an assurance that no matter what, someone always got your back. Someone will always be there to defend you when you feel weak or vulnerable. The gift of having a catcher. Someone's always ready to catch you when you fall. You may be a strong person, but there are times when you just want to raise the white flag. Family and friends will always be there, but having someone special to lean on is another thing. The gift of care. You've got someone to take care of you, and if you're lucky, someone to take care of you forever. You can open your own door, you can carry your things, you can pay your bills. But, if someone does all these little thoughtful things for you, can life get any better? The gift of affirmation. Constant shower of gifts, hugs and mushy lines. You get your daily dose of sweet messages and frequent surprises. The sweet life. The gift of having a 3 am person. No matter how late, no matter how crazy the reason may be, no matter how inconvenient, there's always someone you can call when you need or want to. The gift of intimacy. You are practically sharing your life and this other person is sharing his/her life with you. You are two souls becoming one. Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow. -Swedish Proverb The gift of a beautiful story. Every story has an ending. When you're in a relationship, there are only two possible endings for you; you either end up together or you break up. Sometimes you decide mutually, sometimes you have no other choice but to accept what your partner has chosen for you. However it ends, trust that the purpose for the ending is always for the best, though it may take some time for that to sink in. No matter how your story would end, trust that it's been beautifully written. The gift of lessons. With the story or experience comes the lessons. Lessons that will wake you, change you, break and rebuild you. Lessons that will make you realize what you really want, what you really need and what you really deserve. The gift of love. Because really, isn't that what romantic relationships are all about? Photos from Google images Hey, did you find this post helpful or entertaining? Please go ahead and share. Share buttons on the left and at the bottom of the article. Big thanks!
Love and Relationship Love Is Not Just An Emotion 12:28 AM Commitment means staying loyal to what you said you were going to do, long after the mood you said it in has left you. -Unknown Love is not just an emotion. Love is a decision. Love is when that giddy feeling of being on cloud 9 disappears, and you still decide to stay and love the other person anyway. Love is when you see the other side of your partner---the undesirable, unlovable one, but you still stick around no matter what. Love is when you don't feel like kissing, hugging, or saying, "I love you," but you still do. Because honoring, loving, and giving your 100% is a commitment you made. Love is more than just your libido on an all-time high. Love is when you see past her dazzling eyes, sweet smile, adorable face, and everything physical, and you still see beauty. Love is not a walk in the park. It is hard work. Love is getting your hands dirty to serve the person you love. Love is working on things together. It's a partnership and teamwork. It's not a one-way street. It's not a solo act. Love is a mutual effort. Love is work---a lot of work. Love is when you decide to hold on against all odds. Love is not for the lazy.Love is more than empty promises and poetry to flatter. Love is saying the truth, knowing that a little discomfort at the beginning will save you from future conflicts. Love is a decision. It's not for the fickle-minded. Love is not for the weak or the complacent. Love is a decision. No ifs, no buts, no maybes. Love is a conscious effort. Love is a deliberate action. Love is not just based on emotions. Love is a decision.
